I have the ability to see humor in the oddest places. And it's something I DO like about myself -- I can find joy in the mundane, I laugh at inopportune times. I'm witty, I'm irreverent, and I am appropriately inappropriate. Have you read my blog "MEMs"? Read it. Because at the very end, when the lights went up, I started laughing. And laughing. And I'm still laughing today.
Laughter helps me cope with some of life's tougher times. It can turn a tragic moment into a gentler memory, a softer memory. When my mom was in mid-stage Alzheimer's, she came out of the bedroom one day and said very seriously, "I think I have a problem." Of course, my heart about stopped and I said, "What's up, Mom?" At that moment, she yanked her shirt up to show me that she had her bra on backwards," Does this look right to you?" I immediately started laughing and said, "Mom, unless you have boobs on your back now, I think we better turn that around." And we both had a good laugh. It sure beats crying...
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Somehow, whether through nature or nuture, both Larry and Jess own similar traits. Here we are getting ready to decorate the Christmas tree. This was about three weeks after I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I was undergoing test after test and everything was topsy-turvy.
You would think that we might be a little subdued, or least a little more traditional in our celebration. But, not us. It's not in our nature. As the kids are trying to straighten the tree and put the lights on, I decide we need to document our holiday and go with an anit-drug theme -- "Say No to Crack."
Here's Jess with her first attempt with the tree.
Then she realizes that I really do have the camera.
Now it's becoming too difficult to work on the tree while holding one belt loop, so Larry steps in...
(ooh, maybe I should offer to wax that for him)
Allan refuses to part of this idiocy and stays on the sofa... he's a real stick in the mud sometimes.
And that's us. I'm not sure we have any pics of the actual tree once it's decorated. But I look at theses pics and I laugh. It's a good memory. It's how we roll.
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(P.S. I also rule with spelling and puncuation.)
GREAT post :)
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